Blue Butterfly
Practical guidance on documenting what you want — advance directives, funeral and burial wishes, the music and letters you would leave behind, and how to raise any of it with your family. Written for people planning their own farewell, and for those deciding without one.
A funeral isn't one fixed thing—it's a category. From traditional services to celebrations of life, here's how to choose the send-off that actually sounds like you.
Blue Butterfly
If a hushed room and organ music isn't you, an outdoor farewell might be. A warm, practical guide to choosing your spot, sorting the logistics, and making the day unmistakably yours.
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Most families would rather talk about anything else—but bringing up your wishes is one of the most loving things you can do. Here's how to start without it feeling heavy.
If you don't choose the music for your funeral, someone else will—and they might pick the Titanic theme. A warm, funny guide to curating a farewell soundtrack that actually sounds like you.
